Scared of getting married
Me and my Fiancé in the middle of planning our indian wedding to be next year, however after getting engaged Dec 2012 and more recently as we have started talking about dates she has really freaked out, to the point where she really is saying she cant do this. I think she’s really scared of the future and how marriage will be after. She is an only child and has probably had a very easy life with her parents, I think the thought of leaving them scares her half to death.
She naturally has very low self confidence and keeps saying she is scared, and cant leave her parents. We have been going out year and half and have some amazing times together, but this has really changed all the dynamics of our relationships, in the way she is, talking. When she starts to stress she tends to cut everybody off and becomes a stranger.
Is this normal feelings of a women about to get married, how should I approach this, or what shall I say. I am totally lost, this is having a major affect on both of our families as everyone knows we are to get married in 2014.
Would appreciate any advice.