Bride and Bridesmaid Dance
Hello fellow Brides, I am new to this forum but I am getting married this year (YAYY!) and I wanted to come somewhere that I could gain advice and support from fellow brides also marrying soon.
Before I got engaged I always dreamed about having my closet friends plan my wedding with me and enjoy the experience of taking part in the things that are important to me in my wedding. While my MOH and some bridesmaids have been great, there are times when I feel that my plans I always dreamed off are somehow inconveniencing them when I feel I should be getting support.
So I really wanted to do a bride and bridesmaid dance for the reception, a mash-up of Beyonce songs and do a small routine that will last like 4 minutes. I have a friend who can teach us a dance and help us put it together. My bridesmaids have (mostly) agreed to take part and do this for me but its like I am pulling their arms being their back and making them not excited or happy because of it. All I have said so far is lets try to learn, if we fail and look rubbish then obviously we don't need to go through with it, but I just want to try. The whole thing is just making me feel anxious as supposed to be something I feel I get support about and encouragement to say okay what are we doing for it, taking a little interest but no, its the subject that dare come up and peoples faces go strange.
Its one day, their friends wedding, am I wrong to feel like why can't people just support me and do this small thing? Like I said just trying to learn it and put something together with me is all I wanted so far. I just don't know, what is everyone else's views on this, did you have a dance/planning one?
Thanks in advance