Children at wedding - can I do this?
I know the children vs no children thing gets asked a lot on here, but I'm wondering whether it would be ok to only have children of immediate family invited, and no others?
how would you put that on an invitation?
The issue Im having is that we are having two flower girls (our nieces - my sisters daughter and h2b's sisters daughter) so obviously they are at the wedding. H2b's sister and also his brother are both having babies due the month before the wedding, so we need to allow these babies there as they are newborn and need breastfeeding and no one else can look after them.
Lastly, h2b's other brother lives abroad and can only come if his 1 year old son is there
therefore we will have 4 babies at the reception (one of the flower girls is going home after the church). I physically cannot fit anymore people into our wedding breakfast, and if a child needs a highchair it takes up a whole space at the table
our cousins have quite a few kids between them but we can't fit all of them in!! Would it be acceptable to say no kids to them? Or not because when they are at the reception they will see that our brother/sisters have their babies with them?
has anyone else done this?