Anyone think you should wait until baby is 12 weeks before revealing to close family? My last baby we held off until about 14weeks!!! It was nice sharing the secret just between me and hubby but this time I just want to tell the people closest to us. I went for my first doctors visit there today (she did a urine test and using my dates confirmed Im 5weeks) and I just feel like I want to talk about it to people, the first time I was really cagey about it an worried it would tempt fate to tell people but now I feel like if the worst is going to happen it will happen regardless of whether I've told people or not. What are you girls doing?