Bridesmaid pulled out
My best friend lives in Australia and I'm getting married in Santorin. Right at the start I never expected her to come, obviously it would cost her a lot of money and it's a massive thing to ask. She's always insisted she was coming, I've asked her several times if she's sure and she always tell me to stop being so stupid.
So I've bought her dress, jewellery, flowers and other bits and bobs totalling £170. Yesterday (5 months to go and 5 months since invitations went out) she told me she would come to UK for hen party and festivities but not the wedding. She said that way she won't me missing out on anything (?!)
I am so mad with her right now, am I being unreasonable? Even last weekend she was talking about the wedding and her plans