hen do chief bmaid hell :(
I HAD MY HEN DO!!!
I can only say after i have some truly amazing friends in my life, BUT also learned some people are not worth being chief bridesmaid! Ok this is long winded but I’ll keep it short version!
So on the Friday i got a hot tub all the girls paid £20 towards it, it took 4 hours to fill this thing! (that’s important)
Anyway me and my friend spent the afternoon getting ready and it was sunny with blue sky so we had a sneaky go in the hot tub.... 3 hours of fun chatting and drinking i had such a lovely time. So all the girls came and well we drank and so on... anyway my chief came with some girls i know and well they are more her mates and sister so on.... anyway they decided to go in the hot tub.... oh instead of sitting there like normal people they went rd. and rd. in circles and emptied all the water out! So then it was like well I can’t refill It, it was so hard to fill 4 hours of a horse pipe attached to my hot water tap with pissing water pouring out! N me running outside with pans of water. It really annoyed me!
Anyway the next day we’d already come to realise there was a divide in the group, it was let’s say chief side vs. my work mates. Chief lot took hold of my living room and in my own house I was made feel un welcome, I was along with my work mates made to sit in the dining room why they all sat with curtains shut all day! WHO DOES THAT? Anyway they took all bacon did not offer it anyone all I got was… hope they did not want bacon we’ve eaten it? So my work lot let well apart from myself and one of my other work mates who’s another bmaid!
Anyway I told everyone start getting ready to go out as we was all meeting at 4pm in local pub and it was 1pm… we was 30mins late long story short because they were all getting ready and took ages.. I left without ear rings, as I was so stressed we was going to miss the train and be late for cocktail making plus my family and other friends where ringing me asking me where we were.
Got to the pub and I was quickly sat down by my mum and sister and then we had a drink the girls all vanished and then they appeared with goodie bags for each girl (my work mate bmaid had done them) anyway the chief had got me a bride to be banner. Then I was told to look out the window outside and to my shock horror they had got me a PINK HUMMER LIMO! Can I say I know some may think tacky but omg it was my dream to have a limo and I cried I was so thankful and my 4 other bmaid had come together along with another friend and all chipped in for it!
So we all went out and got into the limo I was still sobbing….. the chiefy and her mates all sat at one end and I was with all my fambo and friends at other side. They all had their own bottles of wine and was shouting what songs they wanted on… which bugged me…. anyway Went to cocktail making and I sat with my h2b fambo my mum, 2 bmaids and friends…. We had an amazing time doing cocktail making and it was fab I was so drunk,….
Anyway the next group did the cocktail making, my sister, sis in law, cheify her mates, and my work mates… cheify burned her hand and caused a stink saying it was shit in there and how the music was rubbish anyway I was very drunk and my bmaid that had organised limo put don’t stop believing on as it’s our wedding song anyway that set me off again crying. Hahaha.. Anyway we went onto another club and to be fair I can’t remember anything after that…
SINCE the hen do I’ve been brought into light about other issues that have happened with the cheify…. She turned rd and informed one of my other maids that my ‘work mates’ would not be following us a