Okay, so i have quite a large guest list at the moment.
Around 150 people, but for the day, it works out to about 113 (plus me & me OH)
As much as my H2B would like to invite everyone!! I have told him this is not possible as the cost would be over 5k just for the meals!
So, now i am needing to scale down the guest list. Which he has kindly said is now up to me.
How do i choose who is a day guest and who is evening without offending people.
In my opinion, the people who actually care that you and your partner are getting married the most are grandparents, parents, aunts and uncles. For most others it's about going to a wedding! Obviously it's different for everyone.
My family, all my cousins are grown up, so i can easily invite my aunts and uncles to the day and cousins to the evening, but my OH, some of his cousins are between 10 - 15, where they would need to be left at home or invited to the whole day, but how can you invite some to the day and not the others!?
I need help! I feel like i'm being far too nice and involved in everyone elses feelings.
Thanks in advance, and sorry for the long message!!