Guest List Differences & Venues
I'm quite new to this forum and really enjoying reading all your posts - they are so helpful, so thank you.
Does anyone else have a guest list that is quite one sided- I have lots of friends on mine and my partner doesn't have many at all, he isn't a massive one for lots of friends! whilst he has a bigger family overall I have nearly double the number. obviously he has met/hangs out with some of mine but there's plenty that are really my close friends and he doesn't see. I know it shouldn't matter but I feel the pressure to cut mine!
Another question for you all - did you do a guest list first or wait until you had a venue? I know this sounds silly but i've said its pointless cutting the list until we know what we are doing. For example if we have the reception in a marquee at my parents the numbers may not need as much cutting as another venue.
I would love love to hear your thoughts.