I'm new to the site, having only been engaged 3 weeks. I have a few concerns, and speeches is one of them.
Both my fiancee and father have both said they don't want to do a speech. I'm traditional and i would LOVE for them both to do a speech, doesn't have to be funny or long, even a 20 second speech will do me fine.
So i have thought of me and my mother doing speeches instead, but i really want the 2 men in my life to do them. Is there a way i could try to convince them or should i just not have speeches??