I just posted on another thread but thought I would like to hear from people who are currently or have recently been married.
I worry alot about how many people we have coming to our wedding, both me and my other half have relatively small families, I have a small group of friends and he doesn't have many friends so our guest list is quite small. This isn't a problem but I worry about how it looks to others (as much as I know I shouldn't). I have a friend getting married at the end of January who I know has a massive guest list and I just worry about being compared, and others thinking that our wedding is boring or a wash out.
Evening guests I'm struggling to come up with names other than work colleagues. I know the most important bit is about me and him and us enjoying our day which I know we will, but it just brings up a load of anxiety for me too. Our venue isn't huge so hopefully will be ok with small numbers, but do kind of wish we had gone abroad to do it.
Any words of wisdom would be appreciated! I know the things I have to tell myself, just would be great to hear from others too.