A female on stag do
I found out from my fiancé that he has invited a girl to his stag do. It didn’t help that this came up in conversation during a meal with his family. He is going to a 3 day festival for his stag and has invited 1 girl so far who he is closest too, although he does have other female friends.
Ive never been one to be insecure about his friends and get on with them all really well, especially the one he has invited but for some reason this has really annoyed me and I feel really upset about it all.
Firstly, I trust him 100% and know there is nothing to worry about with this girl however, I have been to festivals before in mixed groups when I was younger and know that sometimes, you alll end up in each other’s tents depending on who wants to stay up/go to sleep. with her being the only other girl, I worry about the sleeping arrangements as trusting him aside, I wouldn’t feel it appropriate for tents to be shared and for sleeping arrangements to be mixed. I also worry that if his other girl friends want to go he now won’t be able to say no in which case, this will end up being simply a social im not invited to which makes me feel very excluded.
This girl is most likely also going to be on my hen do and so I also feel like she will have attended more of my own wedding preparations than I will have myself.
Im 7 months pregnant and we are very excited about our upcoming arrival but I have already found it hard that I can’t have as much fun with him recently, or have big nights out/festivals with him so maybe I am a bit jealous as she is able to have fun with him whilst I’m stuck at home doing grown up things. I can’t explain why I feel the the way I do really and obviously I would not want him to uninvite her now. I suppose I just feel like another woman will be having more fun with him than I am. So I guess that is jealousy.
I just don’t know how to get over this feeling. Am I being completely ridiculous?