I am not working at the moment so my h2b is paying for everything and trying to save to buy our house at the same time! So We are getting married at the Register Office and then having a BBQ at our garden for about 20 people. I couldn't afford to buy the dress or cake I wanted, we aren????t having live music, no even having a honeymoon! since he will be back to work two days after the wedding! I am excited about getting married, but sometimes I feel a bit sad when I think the things I would like to have but can't!