How to tell my sister maybe she shouldn't be a bridesmaid!?
Some of you may have seen some of my other posts about my sister and an argument we had over my hen weekend. Well this argument is still going on and i don't really want her as a bridesmaid. Of course i still really want my sister at my wedding and in a couple of years i may regret not having her as a bridesmaid. The fact that she is not interested in anything to do with the wedding just doesnt help. I am sick of her making me out to be this bad guy to everyone just because i said it would have been nice if she had asked me if her friend could come to the hen weekend. She then blew up at me saying that she needs to make sure she has a good time and she probably wont with me and my friends and will get stuck with our mum. She thinks i am being selfish for pointing out to her that it is my hen weekend and cannot believe the fact that i am trying to make the weekend about me!? I thought that was the whole point in a hen weekend!?
So i need your help in how i can put together some nice words to basically say DONT BOTHER BEING A BRIDESMAID!!!! This is something i have thought long and hard about so is not a rash decision. I was thinking of saying something along the lines of of course i want you to be part of my wedding day but do you agreee that maybe not a good idea to be a bridesmaid?
I know i am taking a risk and she may even turn around an say that she will not come at all but her two little girls are my flower girls and i adore them more than anything and still want them to share my special day with me as my flower girls.
2 months 3 weeks to go and this is turning out to be a not so exciting time anymore, infact the day just fills me with dread!