So just had the awful conversation with my mum about my choice of bridesmaids. H2B and I decided we weren't going to have any flower girls/page boys in our bridal party. But my Mum really wants my brothers step daughter. Just told her now that I didn't want her and now I've upset my mum about the decision!!! Which in turn has upset me but truth is I don't want her as a flower girl but do I keep my mum happy by saying she can be??