I think I may end up murdering my bridesmaid
So I hate to say this whole wedding things is getting to me but gerally think I'm gonna lose it as some of you might know from my previous posts I'm not very weddingy minded and have had few issues with bridesmaids but I have had enough with one and I neetwosome opinions if I'm overreacting and just stressed out or if I really am justified in wanting to blundon my bridesmaid to death.
i have been having various commenta from my bridesmaid ranging from I don't really like weddings they are all the same everyone has a country manor (guess where my wedding is ? Country manor) to If I don't like the bridesmaids dress I'm not wearing it, when I said I was getting my bridesmaids dresses online she went I can't see why just go to a bridal shop and get them there for £40 (is she insane) I said I had done research on our local area and in bridal shops its more like 130pounds ...she was like oh you clearly haven't looked, I said I was having my hair down she said I wouldn't be a real bride if I didn't have it up, then she said I have found the dress I'm wearing to the evening part as she didn't want to be wearing the bridesmaids dress all day ..... Oh and she didn't want her hair up like all the other girls she wants it down. Told me I could tag along on put mutual friends holiday and call it my hen do (but I wouldn't want to invite to many people as people will say they will come then won't) - I had already arrange to go on holiday to bendrom for he hen do but now I'm tagging along on theiHolliday ? Oh wait for it now shes saying she's going abroad with too of our mutual friends for the spring Sumer 2014 and my weddings in June 2014 but not to worry she will fly back the day before ....... Now she's asking if these two friends are on the day guest list and how much it is per person as I have always said I would be annoyed if people didn't show because of how much it was per head and that's caused the guest list to be v restrictive ......
she has made it clear that she thinks I'm to young to be getting married and I'm 24 ...can't help but think if she had a bf she would be so much nicer about things
I feel like she's trying to downplay my day literally my taking her and two of my mates out of the country ....(I spoke to one and she said bridesmaid X said I wasn't worried if people came or not and that I was just lookig for a reason to party!!
im gettig married not having a party its kinda a big deal
am I overreacting ? I feel like I'm going mad xx what should I do or say this bridesmaid thinks she's maid of honnor