Disagreement between h2b and mob
I have a bit of a predicament! Getting married in 4 weeks but we have a problem with the way the tables are going to be laid out for our wedding breakfast. My H2B wants them one way and my mum wants them another. I'm not fussed as long as everyone has something to eat and drink!! My H2B has said he's not changing his mind as to which room layout he wants and my mum has said the same!
I've tried explaining to my mum why he wants the room the way he does to which she replies he's just doing it to be awkward and get one over on me and it'll ruin the day because it doesn't look right. No I feel awful thinking that the day is going to be ruined for my mum but I know my H2B would feel the same if we changed it to how my mum wants it.
I'm getting more and more stressed as its the only thing that we seem to think about and argue about when there's lots of other little things that need to be done which aren't getting done. It's caused huge arguments with her to the point where she's said she's not sitting at our top table and she might not come at all.
Has anyone else had this problem or similar?