I will NOT be a bridezilla...
I am trying REALLY hard to bite my tongue and not be a bridezilla about this.
H2B decided he wanted to make model castles for our centrepieces. I wondered if he would have time but he was really keen on the idea and they will look great so off he went. Then he realised he wouldn't have time! LOL.
He asked a couple of friends to make castles for us, and the friends very kindly agreed to do it. It's lovely of them, I'm very grateful.
BUT one of these friends is posting photos on Facebook of every stage of his castle being built. Not privately for us to see, publicly so his hundreds of friends can like it and tell him how amazing it is. He has tagged us in the photos so all my friends and family have also seen it. Whenever someone asks what the castle is for he tells them it's for the wedding and tags us again.
so, no element of surprise left now then, no wow factor on the day.
Plus, he has gone a bit overboard and his will only just fit on the table. In many ways it will be "better" than the one's H2B has made and might make his look a bit rubbish. Not to criticise someone for doing a job well, but it does need to fit in.