A letter to my friends and family
Sorry have to rant!
Dear friends and family
Im writing this letter to clear some things up. To be honest I'm finding it very stressful having everything I sort for the wedding critised.
So friend and relatives please note:- If I tell you having something at my wedding, then I'm not really asking your opinion.Chances are in fact if I've decided on something, it wasn't a rash decision but something I've been thinking for a long time. So it's not helpful if u at this point give me your unhelpful opinion, unless you have a better suggestion.
If I say " hmmm I'm not sure on this, what do u think" then its ok to tell me your honest opinion. Otherwise please be kind and polite and think about my feelings. I know you are only trying to help, but trust me, it isn't.
It upsets me when I show you something, (which I'm showing u because I like it) for your only comment to be a negative one. For example mum, when I showed u my make up from my trial, which I said I was really pleased with, your only comment was " I don't really like the red lips" . Not really the reaction I hoped for.
Maid of honour. If u don't think the boleros I have bought are " Not special enough" for a wedding, then there are nicer ways to say so than " you have have to be joking right? Please?! We look like we are wearing school uniform" . I wouldn't speak to u like this, period.
Just for your info, From now on I won't be showing u anything wedding related.
Bride to be.