Upset by wedding planner at our venue today
I thought I was being really sensitive about this until both my H2B and MIL brought it up.
Today we took my inlaws-to-be to see the venue where my fiancé and I are getting married this day in a years time.
We booked the venue a year ago and the same planner was there then, and was really lovely in fact the two times we visited last year (the first visit and the day we booked it) this same planner was brilliant (before we had parted with any cash).
Today we went there to show my in-laws around and from the off I thought the planner was abrupt and quite frankly rude. And it was all over the DJ wanting to come across whilst we were there today and drop off the insurance documents and electical certificates as he was passing on the way back from a previous wedding he was doing the night before. To which the reply of the planner was "we do not have suppliers come here at weekends, is there a way that you can tell him not to come". So I had to then make a rather embarassing phone call asking him not to turn up. Admittedly I should have asked first whether it was alright, but as it was for something they had asked us to produce I (wrongfully) presumed it would be alright. From that moment on, it was just awkward. There was also another moment when the planner and another member of the team were asking about our suppliers and we mentioned who was doing our flowers and they looked at each other and pulled an eye rolling face.
After the visit to the venue we went to meet our florist (who has done many weddings at this venue) as we had planned a full day of wedding stuff and the she said that recently this person has been off with them too.
I don't know whether I should say something or just put it down to me being a bit sensitive because its the biggest day of my life so far and obviously I want it to go well. My H2B said that he thought it was a bit aggressive in the way that they spoke and it was my MIL who approached me about the florist 'moment'.
Do I just ignore it? I've paid the deposit and various other non transferrable bits now so its not like I can walk away without a penalty. I just feel a bit hurt by it all.