Bridesmaid just announced she's pregnant
I'm getting married in November and am having my sister, sister-in-law and h2b's sister as my bridesmaids.
The other week my sister-in-law announced that she is pregnant which is great news as her and my brother have been trying for ages but she is due the middle of September.
My mum has said that if she were in my sister-in-law's position she would step down from being a bridesmaid and has even suggested I ask her not to be one any more! I'm really not sure what to do.
The biggest issue I am having is I haven't sorted anything out for the bridesmaids yet. I already had a bit of a problem because she is bigger than the other two (over size 20 - my sister is size 16 and h2b's sister is size 8!) so finding a dress to suit everyone has been tricky. I'm at a loss as to when to get their dresses now. I don't want to buy anything too early just to have to make loads of alterations nearer the wedding but I don't want to leave it too late either and not be able to find anything at all. I was considering Dessy bridesmaid dresses but I'm not sure about that now.
She also had a miscarriage last year so I don't want to put her under any unnecessary stress. However she was brilliant when I went to try wedding dresses on a couple of weeks ago and was the only one of my bridesmaids who came.
It's really been giving me a headache. Any advice would be much appreciated!