...im feeling abit sorry for myself.
My H2b is divorced (bitter fight for the best part of a decade), he has 2 children - both of who will be bridesmaids at our wedding in the summer.
we have had chats about colours, flowers, dresses etc - so that they feel involved.
this has all been great.
only problem has been that their mum clearly asks them about us/our plans and has her own jealousy issues and is extremely manipulative. But I find it really upsetting that she is trying to find out things and keeps saying nasty things to the girls (she doesn't speak to me or H2b) which they then repeat. For example, how can we afford a honeymoon etc? Isn't she owed some of this money??? We work SO hard and have been saving like crazy
i know this is her and not the girls but it is really upsetting me. H2B says we should just ignore her and carry on. But I sometimes don't want to share specific wedding details with the girls because I know she will get it out of them and then start with her opinions on everything that we've spent months organising.
...i think it's time for a cup of tea and a few/ten consolation cookies