maid of honor is in another wedding the day after mine
I’m a first time bride and I need some advice – I asked my best friend who I've known since I was 4 to be my maid of honor. I was so excited to share this momentous experience with her and take yet another one of life’s big steps with her by my side. Then, she recently told me that she's agreed to be in another friend's wedding the day after mine. She is going to be one of only two bridesmaids in the friend's wedding and I'm afraid that with two weddings back to back, she wont be able to be there for me in the way that I need her to be. I mean how is she going to party with me on my wedding night and do brunch the next morning if she needs to leave early and get rest for the second wedding. And then there’s the bridal showers and bachelorette parties… it just seems like a lot, in fact too much. Me and my bff have always been incredibly close and I'm really hurt that she even agreed to be in another wedding the day after mine and I need some advice on whether or not I'm being crazy or if this is something I need to seriously talk with her about. I'd really like it if she'd back out of the other wedding - I just dont think it's fair to either bride (me or her friend who's wedding is the day after mine). Please help with some advice.