Last Name wobbles -help
On Saturday we have Marriage Preparation at the Church. I remember 6months ago when the vicar came over I mentioned not being sure about changing my surname, we all laughed it off but it's a feeling that still lingers. The vicar had told me that I wouldn't need to decide until Marriage Prep.
Over the months I came to the conclusion I would be fine taking the name, after all it's a name. But with Saturday looming I can't help but feel undecided.
My other half said he'd happily have a double barrelled name. I suppose I just feel like I belong to my name, it's been with me my whole life & even though we've been together 8 years I still don't feel overly 'part' of his family. I don't want a family name I don't feel a belonging/part of.
I'm probably just being silly but has anyone else had these Surname wobbles? I guess it will be alright on the night but once it's done I can't change it. Perhaps I should blog it out.
also over at www.practicaleverafter.co.uk (my planning wedding blog)