I shouldnt worry too much about the MOH title, Im not having one either
As for the Godparent part, we havent had our children christened but we do have guardians in place should anything happen to us, you could do something similar
I always thought moh was when you were married? as in if you have a married bm they are then moh, I could be wrong though!
At my best friends wedding I remember her explaining to me that a MOH are those who are married. Her cousin got the title if you like, but I did all the running around. I am not worrying about the MOH title with my bridesmaids as I wouldn't want to upset one of them for the sake of a label. Does it really matter? She knows how much you mean to each other.
It's like a chief bridesmaid thing. Matron of honor means ur married, maid of honor is unmarried, and bridesmaids can be either.
and thanks x