Hen party worries
Hi, I wondered if anyone can help me or has been in the same situation.
My friend is organising my hen party for me. I don't have a very big friend base so its just 8 of us. I don't drink so a big night out is pointless but I also suffer from panic attacks so high adrenalin isn't my thing either.
I had settled on a day out in the summer, go into the city then ten pin bowling and a few drinks in a beer garden in the sun and a nice meal.
She has now told me that's not what she wants to do and has other plans that involve just the evening because everyone else wants a night out afterwards. Am I wrong to be upset that my original plans have changed so much and how do I say something without sounding ungrateful?