Babies at weddings
Hi this question gets asked a lot but I'm feeling under pressure from my fiances family to invite his cousins baby and wondered if I should give in even though I don't want to!! My fiances cousin and his wifes baby will be 6 months old when we get married and have asked if they can bring it to the wedding. I have said I don't want children other than a select few who are in the wedding party or are coming from afar for the wedding but his cousin has said they can't get a babysitter so will have to bring the baby or only one of them will be able to attend!they have been given over 4 months notice to get a babysitter!!i really dont want to back down as I went to a wedding recently where a baby cried throughout the whole ceremony and I've also told my cousin who I'm really close to her baby isn't invited (she was absolutely fine about this).we are not close to my fiances cousin I've only met them twice in eight years!we attended their wedding in November and they never spoke a word to us and we've never had a thank you for our wedding gift!im just annoyed as my fiances family are saying its unfair I'm not inviting the baby but I just feel strongly about it and since we are footing the bill for the whole wedding I think I should be entitled to stick to my decision or am I been unreasonable!?