h2b not pulling his weight!!
soo.. I need to vent this morning!! My h2b wants a big wedding, 100 guests for the ceremony and 75 more for the evening. I am shy, don't like being the centre of attention (to the point of having panic attacks in the past), hate having my photo taken, etc, but it means a lot to him, and I want to marry him, so that's what we're doing. The problem is, he is not helping at all with planning it!! And the one thing that he has done (order toilets - we're having a marquee in my parent's garden for the reception) has just fallen through. I've been reminding him to pay the deposit and talk to the company for ages, and he just hasn't done it! Now they have given the toilet's to someone else, and it seems like everyone is booked up, as its the busy season. I am so annoyed!!! I would have done it myself, but I've been moaning about him not doing anything, and he said he was doing this to show he is!!! And then messes it up and creates so many more problems as everywhere that has toilets left (not many places) is really expensive! I said we need to start making decorations the other day, and he starting cutting out bunting for literally half an hour, before declaring his fingers hurt!?!?! haha! What should I do?