3 months to go....
...and I feel like I am going to have a nervous breakdown.
Not necessarily about the wedding itself, just about other stuff. We have had family issues with both of our families, and last night a huge bombshell was dropped on my h2b.
His family member has been diagnosed with a genetic disease (which is the same one a distance relative of mine had and died of 3 years ago). The symptoms are pretty much identical to the current symptoms h2b has, but has been diagnosed with something else (by process of elimination).
Obviously the family needs to undergo genetic testing now, which is made even more complicated given that h2b isn't speaking to his mum, and relationships with the rest of his family are very fragile.
This could effect whether we have children (which we'd already decided we would TTC straight after the wedding), and if h2b does have it, it's a pretty horrible road ahead of him, in that the condition is not curable, but treatable. Which is not all bad, I know, but the treatment is pretty scary.
H2b is obviously very upset and very worried about his family. With all this going on, I'm seriously wondering if we should postpone the wedding with all that's going on, because the last thing I want is for h2b to feel ridiculously overwhelmed with all this.