Stag do woes...
Yes another crazy bride here!
Me & OH have just returned from stag and hen weekend. I went to Marbella with the girls, he went to Magaluf.
I have never agreed with men going to strip clubs, it's just my opinion that men who are in relationships shouldn't have to look at other women half naked/naked. However, on his friends stag do 2 years ago he asked me and I said I don't mind him going as long as he doesn't get a private dance so what does he do?! Goes and get's a private dance and then insists it's not "private" because him and his friend were in a room with 2 girls together. To me, if you pay for it, you are not only then just mucking around and getting an eyeful you are taking it to the next level where you obviously want them to take more clothes off etc.
I was so hurt when I found out and haven't got much body confidence anyway so it really got me down for a couple of weeks then we moved past it. This stag do he asked again and I said I am trusting him as we are now getting married next month and he must be able to keep promises to me so go ahead and don't get a private dance.
We are back and he insists he didn't get any privates etc etc then is telling me stories about his friends with prostitutes etc and it just horrifies me! I believe that he didn't get any dances etc I am just genuinely horrified at how some men behave!
Okay on my hen weekend, I did a scavenger hunt whilst very drunk and had to get a guys boxers, get a piggy back round a night club etc and there was a stag party where the groom went into the toilets took off his boxers and gave them to me and me and my friends were wetting ourselves the next morning when I woke up with them in my handbag but does anyone feel like women can do it in good nature but men are just sleazy? Urgh I hate males! LOL
Is it only me that feels this way? Am I crazy?! It makes me feel sick to think of him seeing other women naked but I knew I had to take a step back and let him prove to me I can trust him and especially as we are getting married! Argh I'm so glad he's home now ha ha ha! He was laughing at the pictures of me on facebook on this guys back with his boxers in my hand and the reason I put them all up on there is