Sick of MIL to be..
I just need to vent! As many of you know we got engaged and announced our wedding date as 20th June 2014, a week later all of a sudden MIL to be was engaged and getting married 24th May 2014.
We have always got on but she can be two faced and an attention seeker so I have learnt to deal with this over the last nearly 8 years I have been with H2B, I know how to handle her. I was a bit pissed off she was trying to take the attention, more so for my H2B as he is her son and I don't think anybody should be jealous of their children.
This was last year anyway and after having to calm my family down, they were not happy at all about it, I begged and begged them not to say anything as I didn't want a row or any dramas. H2B is so laid back he is practically horizontal so I haven't really had a reaction from him, he seems to not mind.
In the last few months there have been many tears on MIL to be because she is so desperate to get married before us she has had to cut costs dramatically (she was never married to H2B Dad so this is her first wedding). Crying because she couldn't afford flowers, a cake etc everything had to be home made (I personally like home made but had no sympathy for her as if she has just waited instead of being desperate for attention her and her Husband could of saved like me and H2B have done to have the day they wanted).
So yesterday was the wedding, ceremony in registry office was lovely and I woke up in the morning and thought to myself I'm going to let go of all of the bad feelings etc because it's a happy occasion and everyone deserves to be happy. Well I soon regretted feeling that way when I got to their hall for the food and evening and saw she had sat me right at the back of the hall on the very last table with lots of non family members, people they see once in a blue moon kind of non important table. H2B was on "top table" and she had sat me the furthest she could of possibly done away from H2B and everyone I knew. I'm so bloody angry and H2B doesn't understand why I feel as her nearly daughter in law I should of been sat with famiily or at least close friends. I have been nothing but nice to her, we have never had a cross word and I kept my feelings to myself about their wedding as I do not like any famiily dramas, it makes life difficult and I would never want to put H2B in that position but I am sooooooo pissed off and feel like completely moving her off my top table to the back of the room or sitting her next to her ex (H2B dad) as she is so