Am I overreacting??
Hi there ill tell you whats happened then ill await your responses. We got married last October and had 3 bridesmaids. Well one of them is now engaged and planning her wedding.(We have been friends for about 20 years) She has quite a few female family members so im not a bridesmaid and im fine with that. She has asked if I can help with the organisation eg helping make invites etc and again im more than happy to help. We were having a discussion last night (the first time i had seen her since they set the date) and mentioned that they were getting married on my step sons birthday. Without taking a second she turned to me and said 'its ok I dont have space on the day list so your husband can only come to the evening' I just brushed it off and ignored it as i thought she was joking but it appears that she isnt. She has told me again that he is only invited in the evening. Im pretty mad about this as we had her, her boyfriend and her parents at our wedding. So am I overreacting? Would you invite a friend to the day but her husband to the eveing even tho you were their bridesmaid less than a year ago?