Is it just me???
My fiance propsed to me in November last year.. It was the happiest time of my life..! So far we have put the deposit down for our venue, the church is booked, our photographer is booked and we are in the middle of making our invitations. We booked the wedding for August 22nd 2015 ..Last week My Fiancé's sister announces she is getting married 4 days after us!!!!! No proposal, no ring.. they just decided! Here are her reasons: 1. Her sister will be here from America for their wedding so I may aswell do it when she is here 2. Our grandparents may not be alive very much longer so its a good time. At first she said its just a small affair.. registry office, no fuss small meal after. So my fiance and I suggested moving it to Christmas time when her sister can travel again. Her reply: Oh no I want a summer wedding!! Why does it matter if it's cold or warm outside when you are in a registry office?
The whole thing has upset and annoyed us so much..Whilst I understand her reasons, I am struggling to understand why she wants it in the same week as us! I think it is very very selfish and unreasonable for her to do this and continue to think it's ok regardless of how she is upsetting people.
It can't be just me is it? My Fiancé is very supportive and completely shares my views. I am very fond of his family and loved ones and I do not want to see them upset either. Having said that.. I do not think I should be put in this position.The parents and her cannot seem to understand my feelings ...They think it is perfectly fine and of course it Is me who is causing the trouble!
Any advice/comments are welcome.