Family messing me around with days to go until the wedding!
Just need a bit of a rant! I'm getting married on Wednesday 6th August. I have some family in London, not really close but keep in touch on Facebook. Invited them to my wedding last year and they said they'd be there, to be honest I only really invited them to be polite, I didn't actually think they'd come. Nothing has changed and they've been talking about the wedding to me and then about 2 weeks ago one of them (the mum) said she couldn't make it anymore as she is moving house. So I thought maybe one of the other guests (her grown up daughter) would be bringing her husband to replace her mums place. So I messaged them the other day to check if he was coming and things so I could add him to the table plan, only for her to message back on Friday 1st August (5 days before the wedding) saying she doesn't think any of them will be coming any more, but will let me know by the weekend Now that annoyed be because;
A. I don't know if she would have even told me if I hadn't messaged her first.
B. It was 5 days until the wedding when she told me!!
C: We've already paid for their places so will be losing a couple of hundred pound if they don't come!!!
There was people I would have rather have had there than them, especially if I had of knew they were going to let me down aswell.
So I've messaged her today on Facebook just saying sorry to harass her but I need to know by the end of today if they can make it or not and I explained we've already paid for them to be there (so if they're not coming we will need to try and fill their places so we don't lose the money). She has been on Facebook and is currently uploading pictures and commenting on stuff but hasn't read or replied to my message!!
Am I right to be pissed off or am I being a bridezilla?!?! If they don't come its leaving me with 3 spaces to fill before Wednesday or lose the money!
What should I do if she doesn't message back by tomorrow?
Do you think venue would refund for the missing guests? (I know its a longshot)