Now...I know that my wedding is not as important to anyone else as me, I get that.
I also know that RSVPs are a pain in the proverbial.
However, I feel really saddened by a couple of people's responses to me chasing them for a reply. Everyone who was invited to the day has replied with lovely messages, as have many evening people.
However, with the deadline up for evening rsvps I sent some texts politely saying that we really needed numbers and were they able to come?
One girl (who got married last year and I replied STRAIGHTAWAY to her evening do invite) replied saying hadn't checked date and would get back to me. She hasn't got back to me, she has asked other friends (who are invited to the day) if they are going.
Another replied asking what the date was... errr on the invite?!
I just don't understand it - they have had the invites for over 6 weeks, if they are not that fussed just say no, don't prat around replying?!