We cant have a 'marriage'
So basically, after months of chasing our registrar, and being constantly told that they were not available, on holiday, or would call us back. Finally, we got through to someone yesterday, who told us that we cannot legally get married on the 19th September as we have not given enough notice.
HOWEVER, this was never discussed with us beforehand, and after all the issues with the registrar, I do not think this is very fair and in ways, not our fault.
I just feel so drained, and am seeing the wedding as 'no point' now. I mean, in my mind, what is the point of having a wedding without something legally binding to prove it?
I suppose our only other option is to have a commitment ceremony, but with only 16 days to go, we need to write AND find somebody to perform the ceremony. So I suppose another question is, does anybody know of any good celebrants in the Hampshire area?