How do I tell my family they're not invited?
My cousins and aunts and uncles aren't invited to our very small, very unimpressive ceremony the day before our reception. My mother is incredibly unhappy about this, and I really don't know how to tell them. They know it's not about budget, and we are a pretty close family, but I don't want lots of people there on that day.
Every excuse I write down just sounds childish... I could really use your help ladies.