Stressed out over bridesmaids
Hi I have a problem with choosing my bridesmaids. I have been married before and almost as soon as I got engaged (the first time) I asked my best friend of 18 years to be my bridesmaid. Unfortunately she said no I was really hurt and to be honest a little embarrassed as I felt she ovoiusly didn't value our friendship as much as I did. I ended up not having any bridesmaids at all.
Anyway now I am getting married again and I am terrified of the same thing happening. I have three close friends that I really want to ask but I just cant bring myself to. The whole thing is really stressing me out and I just don't know what to do.