Maid of Honor really upsetting me
I had issues with my best friend being my maid of Honor from the start. I had to wait on her terms before I order the bridesmaids dresses from America whether she wanted to be a bridesmaid or not as she has an issue with her weight. She then decided she wants to be my maid of Honor & organises a surprise hen weekend. So I thought she's now stepping up & isn't going to be award anymore. I've accidently found out my hen weekend is in dublin my dad slipped up but I'm still pretending I don't know. But my sister then asked my best friend has she any hen game bits etc. Then my best friend said no as she don't like doing anything like that & hasn't arranged anything or even bought a veil for me to wear as she said she's too busy working two days a week & has one child. Where me & my sister work full time & have two kids. But we still have time to do stuff. So my sister is fuming & has sorted stuff out & got games & stuff to do. All my best friend has done is arrange the hotel & that's it. My friends have sorted out the flights. Then when the dresses arrived my moh really likes hers & feels comfortable so that was good but trying to arranged a date to book in for alterations was a nightmare she was making up every excuse not to go. So then I sat down with her & asked her please tell me if you don't want to be my moh or a bridesmaid but she said don't be silly you have been my best friend since infant school I wouldn't want to not be apart of it. Now she has told me yesterday that she normally starts her period on the 4th of every month. I'm getting married on the 2nd April. She now has said she came on the 1st Jan & if she comes on before my wedding day she cannot wear the dress! So basically I would have to see if she would let me down a day before my wedding when I have paid for her dress, flowers, shoes, jewellery. Then she said she might be able to still wear the dress if she comes on but take it off after the photographs after the ceremony. I just don't know what to do she's upsetting me so much. She is meant to be my best friend but wants everything her way.