My fiancé is organising his best friends stag do and he has been looking at going to Kraków - some of the activities include an airport transfer with a stripper and VIP entry into a Lap dancing club. This makes me think that this is something he would want for his stag do or his best friend will organise something similar for him. It makes me feel really uncomfortable thinking that my fiancé will get a lap dance. I don't mind him going to a strip club with his friends and him just looking but I'm not happy if he gets a lap dance where a girl is touching him, boobs in his face, grinding on his crotch. This is just unacceptable to me. I have spoken to him about it and he just says it's not his fault if his friend gets him a lap dance. I just find it disrespectful - what are your thoughts? Should I not care?