We recently announced that we had officially booked a wedding venue and date after over a year of umming and ahhing about where to get married. The first thing my in-laws to be asked was "Can we throw a party for all the family". We agreed to this as we are only having a very small wedding with very close friends and immediate family. After this every single conversation we had with them went straight to their party and they wouldn't talk about our wedding itself. Eventually my H2B asked them if we could just have a little bit of time focussing on the wedding because it felt like they weren't excited about the actual wedding at all. Both his parents threw their toys out the cot and said we weren't involving them in anything so it was our fault they weren't excited (bearing in mind at this stage it had only been booked 5 DAYS and H2B and I only get weekends together to discuss things as he works away, he had been away for all 5 of these days so no further planning had been done, I had also tried to involve them in venue choice but they were not interested unless it was on their terms). I came up with a job for them the same day and the immediate response was "We don't want to do it". They are now not speaking to us! What on earth am I supposed to do???