Is this stingey for a hen do?
I have been invited on a friend's hen do. I must admit I have made my excuses to go to only part of it, mainly because it involves a lot of expense, a large group, sashes and L plates and general tackiness, and a strip show - not my idea of fun! I want to go for my friend though so am going for the daytime bit. Her bridesmaid (who I don't know) is asking for deposits etc. from everyone - I know what it's like so don't begrudge her being organised etc. But she is asking if I will be paying towards the hen's costs - that is 2 nights in a hotel, strip show tickets, meals out, dance class, accessories etc. I don't want to appear stingey, especially as I don't know these people, but I kind of feel I should only contribute to the hen's costs for the bit I am doing, not the whole weekend with hotels etc. Am I being unreasonable? How do I answer her email which asks if I will contribute to the hen's costs?