Help! MOH Troubles - Bridesmaid Dresses!
I didn't need to ask my MOH to be just that because she knew I would ask her and it's true (although I haven't "officially" asked her yet. BUT I admit I am having second thoughts about it... especially with all the kerfuffle over bridesmaids dresses!
Every style I have suggested or shown her she has shot down and then thrown dresses she likes at me. Most of which i have disliked, a couple of which i thought were ok. Shes being very stubborn about certain things, For eg. I would prefer short dresses, she almost insists on long. Basically, it seems like it boils down to "stuff what you want, I don't care as long as I look good".
And then today when we finally had a dress she agreed to...
Well, I've spoken to my H2B and he has said he would like to be involved in the bridesmaid dresses side ofbthings and I agree, (although he sayss the final choice is down to me) after all it is his day too. So we more or less agreed that he would see the dresses in person before they were bought.
As soon as I mentioned his coming to see the dresses to my MOH, she threw, what I can only describe as, "a bit of hissy fit", saying things like "he doesn't get to see your dress, why should he see ours", "you're not paying for the dresses, we are" and "it's nothing to do with him". To be honest, I don't know what to do, she has suggested taking photos and sending them to him but I know photos don't always do things justice and these dressed have to be ordered nearly two months in advance so I'd prefer to order them while we are there, with plenty of time for alterations, but I can't keep up with her being this controlling and stuff.
In contrast, I went to a bridesmaids dress fittings wih a other friend ( I am one of her bridesmiads) and the difference was incredible...
Sorry for the long rant!!