Feeling a bit upset
I've had a bit of a rubbish week for a number of reasons (non wedding related) and was really looking forward to my first dress fitting tomorrow. I have one bridesmaid, my sister. The fitting was booked in the summer, but a couple of months ago she told me she's arranged to go away with her boyfriend. Since then she's trying to get out of coming for the fitting - she was supposed to be having her dress fitted to. this is the last Saturday my dressmaker will do this year, and the wedding is in February so I don't want to move it much earlier or leave it until January. So, eventually agreed she would come.
she called me tonight to say that her dress no longer fits, but she's found the dress in a sale so she's ordering a bigger size. As she doesn't need her dress fitting now she's refusing to come with me tomorrow. So I'm now having to go alone. The dress show has poor disabled access, so its awkward for my mum to come and I don't want my dad to see the dress before the day. I was considering asking an outer female friend to come with me but its very short notice, and again it will mean they see the dress before the day.
ive been laid back about most of the planning, but this has hurt me and left me feeling completely unsupported by by bridesmaid.
H2B thinks I should see if one of my female friends will fit the original dress and ask them to be a second bridesmaId, but I'm not sure I can do that - they all know I'm only having my sister and it seems very tactless to ask them if they want to be bridesmaid now and on,y on condition they fit the original dress!
am I being unreasonable in being unreasonable in expecting a bit more support from my sister/bridesmaid?