OH's Sis is my hairdresser, but OH has uninvited her from wedding
Right so this is a complicated issue that I’m feeling a little helpless about because honestly I just feel like the outcome is pretty much outwith my control.
When my OH proposed his sister offered to do mine and the bride’s maid’s hair for the wedding. I was thrilled, she’s the best up do stylist in town and I’d be really lucky to have her – initially I was cautious about saying yes as obviously it’s her brother’s wedding and the idea of her working instead of concentrating on getting herself ready for the day seemed unfair, but she insisted she would love to do it and secretly would be insulted if I allowed anyone else to do it. So that was that and everything was great.
At this point I should mention that I don’t know my OH’s family very well, we’re still very much on the polite good impression stage – so I don’t like to have too much of an opinion when it comes to the OH and his family arguments . My OH and his sister don’t see eye to eye all that often, they love each other but rub each other up the wrong way sometimes.
Which brings me to my problem. My OH and his sister have just had a massive argument, she says that they are finished, called him some horrible names and he said ‘Fine, you’re uninvited to the wedding,’
Her daughter is a bridesmaid and her son is the grooms party – obviously the kids are still invited he’s made that clear, but my OH is adamant unless he gets a full honest apology before next week then she is out of the wedding. I understand their fight is none of my business but I feel pretty stuck. The wedding is in April, I need a hair dresser and I need to know it’s sorted. Also I’m afraid by booking someone else and then the OH and his sister make up that she will take offence and I will have burned any bridges before I’ve even built them.
I just don’t know what I’m supposed to do here without interfering or looking like a cow.