How Can I Focus On My Wedding When My Beautiful Cat Is Missing?
We moved to our home three weeks ago today.
We have 4 gogeous cats, 2 of which are mine and my fiancee's and the other 2 are my Mother-In-Laws-To-Be who are now living with us.
Thursday morning we put one of our cats outside, he has been refusing to leave the house so we wanted to encourage him outside to use outside as a toilet instead of the litter trey all the time (he is almost 3). We went back less than an hour later and he was gone. We haven't seen him since...
His name is Roxy, he is a long haired blue/grey colour, he was the first pet me and my fiancee had together and we love him more than I can put into words, he is our baby. Roxy is microchipped and very unique looking, I pray someone will find him soon and bring him home.
We have been leaving food out every night, hoping it will attract him back, we have gone searching for him severel times, I went round all the neighbours knocking on their doors and none of them have so much as seen him. I called council, thankfully they haven't picked him up. I have rang the vets and they haven't had him brought in. The vets have posted about Roxy on their Facebook page, I posted about him on my own Facebook page, on a lost and found page in Belper (where I live), I have messaged a site called spotted Belper asking them to post about him. My fiancee is currently making fliers at home.
I am devastated, I haven't slept the last two nights and I already suffer from Chronic Fatugue Syndrome/M.E so not sleeping is dangerous for me. How can I sleep though if I'm worried about my fluffy baby?
My wedding is on the 22nd July 2016, we have sorted most things but there are still some wedding tasks which we haven't completed but the truth if as excited as I am for my wedding; I'm finding it difficult to concentrate on wedding tasks because all I can think about is;
1.what else we can do to find our cat?
2.Is he safe?
3.Are we ever going to see him again?
4.Will he come home soon?
5. I need to check all the websites see if anyone has herd anything
6.Check my phone at every opportunity to see if anyone has seen him.
I am completely heartbroken, I'm struggling to breathe. How can I focus on my wedding?