HELP! I asked someone to be a bridesmaid when drunk!
This is my second marriage and really wanted a low key event...my partner has other ideas! I had decided that I just wanted my sister to be bridesmaid but my fiancé wants me to have the same number of bridesmaids as he does groomsmen. I got very drunk at a wedding and asked my friend (who previously has been a great friend although is quite high maintenance and we have had some serious fallings out in more recent years!) to be my bridesmaid!! I was hoping she wouldn't mention anything but is really excited about it.
I now I really don't know if I can do anything about it without losing her completely as a friend? She is due to have a baby 6 weeks before the event by c-section so i'm not even sure if she would be ok to be a bridesmaid so soon after having a baby?