Button hole nightmare
Hello, I hope someone can help calm me a little!
I have been with my fiance for over 7 years and he is in the army. For this reason we are getting married quietly on the 18th of this month (this thursday!) so that we can live in army married quarters then we are planning a big day next year when we will get the marriage blessed.
Although there are only around 20 people coming in thursday I am very stressed and it is mainly due to his mum. I told my fiance that i was not having flowers until next year but he seemed keen to have a button hole, so i found a little white flower corsage type thing for my wrist. He text me before (we live apart atm) saying that he had ordered 5 button holes as his mum said she wanted one too so he ordered for his family. Nothing said about my family. I know it seems really petty but it has got to me. Surely this isn't correct button hole etiquette? It would look very strange if only his family had one. I said that I thought it should just be me and him who had flowers so he offered to order them for my family. I told him to decide so he cancelled the others so now it's just him.
sounds soooooo petty when i'm typing this but we still aren't speaking. I hate how his mum did that, it's just rude. I feel so so stressed and it isn't like me at all. Now i'm dreading the day and the night before as our families are going out for dinner as it will feel awkward. I just want to save things like flowers until next year when I have bridesmaids etc and a proper wedding dress.
Sorry i've gone on for so long!