Just found out I'm pregnant... Advice needed.
Im a current member on here but as I need a little anonymity right now, I've had to set up this account (naughty, I know)
here's the deal, my wedding is late August next year and I have just found out we are 7 weeks pregnant. Totally unplanned but we are over the moon. After a 2nd trimester miscarriage a few years ago, we are counting this surprise as an utter blessing.
Here's the issue, I'll be due around mid April and the wedding is late August. My dress has already been ordered and paid for. Is this putting too much pressure on us? Fiancé doesnt think we should delay the wedding but I'm just not sure? Financially, there are no issues. I'm just worried about stressing myself to fit into a dress 4month after giving birth. And logistically, babies at weddings? I can't say i would want my 4month old being subjected to loud music and drunken people until 1am but if all family and friends are at the wedding, what do you do?
has anyone been in this situation that can offer advice?
typically, I start a new job next week (after being in my current one for 10 years) and I start a distance learning degree in October... I don't do things by half but am I biting off more than I can chew??