Who normally plans the Hen do?
I know I am going to sound really daft and I don't know whether I am feeling overwhelmed with wedding planning or what but my fiance's best man has planned his stag do, it's a total surprise for my fiance, he was just asked when he wanted to go and who he wanted to come. My fiance asked me what my bridesmaids were doing for my hen do and I told him i didn't know. I have 4 bridesmaids ( 1 family and 3 close friends). Two of them live nearby and the other two further away. Well it turns out they haven't done anything/spoken about it. I have never been to a hen do so maybe I am meant to organise my own? They don't seem interested. Before you ask, I haven't asked them to do anything. I don't expect them to be super interested in my wedding, it is my wedding after all and they have their own lives but I am disappointed that they haven't even thought about my hen do unlike my fiance's friend. Am I being ridiculous? Am I just overwhelmed with all the other planning?