To invite OHs friend or not!? Opinions please
Whoever who said planning a wedding is the most exciting and happy time of your lives was obviously lying. It's been pretty stress free except a few minor issues until now. Basically OH has a friend (female) from childhood times, who was on the guest list as he's know her for such a long time. But he has told me that he's had a major crush on her previously and not long before he met me, he'd messaged saying he can't be friends with her anymore because it's too difficult for him. I have however since then met her, twice and the second time she just acted like a bit of a brat and had a sulk when he disagreed with her on something. She doesn't ever make the effort to get in touch with him, he makes all the effort and I don't understand why he bothers!
Anyway, we come to sending out invites and sorting out photos for everyone (our table plan has peoples pictures) and he picks a photo of her after going through Facebook from 2013 where she looks really attractive and I will admit that I lost my cool - that's putting it subtly. He said he's not going to invite her as he doesn't want anything or anyone there to ruin my day and I thought we'd left it at that. And I was starting to feel a little guilty and like I had overreacted so I was going to send her an invite anyway as a gesture that I do trust him and accept that the day is about him too until this morning where he brings her up again resulting in another almighty argument. I don't understand why we're talking about someone who obviously doesn't care about him to make any kind of effort. And now I feel like an idiot for trying to do something nice for him by inviting her.
Basically, am I overreacting about all of this? Should I just invite her and get over it? Would be lovely to hear your opinions as you lovely ladies are so helpful on the threads here!